Dating can feel exhausting (and sometimes even traumatizing). When you waste your time and emotions on people who don’t treat you well and who are emotionally unavailable, you end up feeling like shit about yourself and hopeless about the future...…#beenthere. However, dating isn’t painful when you eliminate the wrong people right away. The best way to stop wasting time with the wrong people is to identify red flags on the first date. That way, you can eliminate the wrong peo