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The Ultimate Dating Program for Badass Single Womxn with Caitlin Cantor

In 12 weeks you will learn how to date with confidence, act in ways that honor your self-worth, and meet an amazing man to create your  dream future with.

Say no more, I need this!

Hey Beautiful Badass!

Are you tired of being single….

Are you tired of getting excited about someone, only to end up feeling hurt and rejected over and over... 

Are you scared you'll never find someone and start the life you dream of….

I get it. 

I've been there too. It sucks not knowing what you can do differently and worrying that you're simply not worthy of the relationship you long for.

It’s time to stop wasting your time with the wrong men, and meet the right one to build a future with.

You deserve way better than someone who takes 24 hours (or more) to return your text, and then expects you to be thrilled that he texted at all….


And you deserve way better than someone who is happy to text with you day and night, but never actually asks you on a date with a firm plan….


And you deserve way better than someone who says he wants a relationship with you, but then ghosts you once you have sex with him…


And you deserve way better than someone who tells you you’re needy, when really, he’s emotionally unavailable and incapable of meeting your needs or anyone else’s (except maybe his own).


Not only do you deserve way better, but you can have way better.

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Empowered AF

The Ultimate Dating Program for Badass Single Womxn 

Empowered AF is a 12 week online course for badass single womxn who are ready to take ownership of their lives, do the work to truly love themselves, and finally attract the loving, quality man they dream of….oh, and be done with online dating for good!

This is my proven method to finding the right partner faster and without all the painful experiences that commonly come with online dating.


Hey, I'm Caitlin Cantor, LCSW, CST, CGT

I created Empowered AF because I want to teach you how to make the online dating world work for you (rather than against you), so you can finally meet the right person and create an amazing future together. 


I know how to help you stop wasting time with emotionally unavailable men. I know how to help you start valuing yourself and feeling empowered. And I know how to help you open up to receive the loving partner you dream of. 

How do I know all of this? 

First, I've done the hard work with online dating. I spent years struggling in the same ways you are now. To make a long & painful story short, I figured out how to make online dating work for me instead of against me. What they don't tell you when you sign up for online dating sites is that online dating is a total shit show, and if you don't know what you're doing, it can eat you alive.

Second, I did the inner healing work necessary to attract the loving partner I wanted. Doing the inner work wasn’t easy AT ALL. But it was SO worth it. I needed to know I deserved the love I longed for. And once I truly knew my worth, I met my incredible husband online. We now have the best little 2 year old daughter I could have imagined!  #dreamlife

Third, I've been helping badass womxn just like you in my private therapy practice for over a decade. I’ve guided many womxn to break their painful relational patterns and find the long term relationship they always wanted, but didn't know how to get. Every one of them feared they weren’t good enough and they’d never find someone. And each womxn who did the work, found someone and is now in an amazing relationship.

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Imagine that you chose a man who treats you the way you want to be treated. He doesn’t do things that cause you to question how he feels about you. He’s considerate and trustworthy, and you have the best time with him. You travel together and explore the world. Things feel easy 98% of the time. Finally you can take a breath because you know your worth and you chose a man who knows it as well. You feel loved, secure, and happy.


It’s not your fault you don’t have this yet. There were a lot of things working against you. These are just 3 major things that have kept you from what you long for:


You were told that online dating sites match you with compatible men, and all you need to do to find the love you want is show up and go on dates with them-----------but really, online dating is a total shit show. Dating sites and apps match you with random men and they have no way of knowing if those men are actually compatible. You have to know how to eliminate the wrong men and recognize the right ones yourself. 


We live in a shame-based society that tells us we’re not enough as we are, and we’re definitely not enough if we’re single. So you date from a disempowered place, believing that men need to like you for you to be good enough-----------But really, you are good enough as you are. And you need to show up to dates owning your worth, and looking for someone worthy of YOU. 


You were told to find someone who “looks good on paper,” meaning they have a good job, good family, make good money, look hot in a suit (or in nothing at all), etc. You weren’t taught that all of those things have nothing to do with connection or a healthy relationship. And you weren’t taught how to develop connection, or how to create a healthy relationship, or any of the important relational skills you need. What else are you expected to do in your life with no education?? Not much.

And there are many more factors that have made it hard for you to find someone and build a life together. So you don’t have to be different or better to have what you want. You are enough exactly as you are! You just need to do the necessary inner healing work, and to get the right education and support.

The good news is, you're worthy AF. That's not the problem.

The bad news? You've got work to do.

Flash forward to  3 months from now.  Just picture what’s gonna be possible for you when you learn how to love yourself and treat yourself with unconditional love: 


  • You’re going to see red flags from a mile away and you won’t waste your time on someone who will just end up hurting you

  • You’re going to feel confident and you’ll trust your feelings to guide you to the right man and away from the wrong ones

  • You’ll start expecting dates and partners to treat you the way you want to be treated, and anything less won’t work for you anymore

  • You’ll stop feeling bad about yourself for being “not enough,” in whatever way you think that’s true

  • You’ll start dating quality men and you’ll choose the best one because you’re not desperate; you’re dating because you want someone, not because you need someone to feel worthy

  • You never worry whether or not someone is into you because you don’t waste time on men who make you worry! Dating is no longer torture, and it’s actually empowering.

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Pillar One: Worthy AF

Empowered dating begins with your relationship with yourself. You have to believe that you are worthy of the partner and relationship you long for. If you don’t, you’ll accept less than you deserve from the wrong men, and you’ll push the right ones away. So, we’re going to start our journey together focusing on owning your worth. In WORTHY AF, you’ll learn the real reason you question your worth. You’ll heal old wounds, and build your self-worth so you finally know how to love yourself. And best of all, you’ll be fully equipped with the skills, tools and emotional muscle to be able to take ownership of your life going forward!

Pillar Two : Slow AF

This is where you’ll learn how to stop getting sucked into the fast paced world of swiping, screwing and ghosting, and take control of your dating journey. You’ll learn the secrets behind online dating sites, and why they feel like total shit shows (hint: they are!). You’ll come away knowing how to make online dating sites work for you rather than against you. You’ll be able to recognize the wrong men--men who are emotionally unavailable or otherwise wrong for you--and waste no time on them. You’ll also be able recognize the right ones. You’ll approach dating from an empowered place, which includes shifting from a, “does he like me,” place to a, “do I like him,” place. And you’ll become skilled at seeing who people are right away, and believing them so you don’t waste any time on dead end dudes.

Pillar Three : Empowered AF Dating

This is where you’ll gain the skills to handle uncertainty, fears, anxiety, and all the discomfort that comes with dating and building a healthy relationship. You’ll learn how to act from an empowered place when you send texts or reach out, and you’ll no longer act from a fearful place. Your worth will never be in question because you’ll have a strong sense of who you are, and you won’t blame yourself for other people’s bad behavior. You’ll find quality men to date, and you’ll learn how to build a strong and healthy relationship with the right one.

And how about these additional FREE bonuses to help you find the right man even faster??


We’ll meet before the course begins so you can start having huge breakthroughs before the course even starts! (Valued at $1000.00)

I will personally review your online profile and provide written feedback for ways to improve it so that you are attracting the right person! (Valued at $500.00)





I will personally review your online profile and provide written feedback for ways to improve it so that you are attracting the right person!


That’s like $300 worth of deliciousness, all rolled into one lip-smacking place. 


But the Free Online Profile Review doesn’t cost that today. 


When you sign up for Empowered AF: The Ultimate Dating Program for Badass Single Womxn today, you can get it for FREE! 

If you’re feeling the pull to step up and go all in for yourself, you can choose the VIP experience!

2 60 minute 1:1 Private Coaching Sessions (Value $1000)

Voxer support for 3 months ($1200)

Your investment for Empowered AF: The Ultimate Dating Program for Badass Single Womxn


$2,500.00, or 3 Monthly Payments of $916

Your investment for Empowered AF: The Ultimate Dating Program for Badass Single Womxn VIP EXPERIENCE:

$3400.00 or 3 Monthly Payments of $1246.00




I know why you’re struggling. I know what you're doing to perpetuate the same painful cycle. I know why you’re doing it. And I want to help you do the work so you can finally find the partner you long for and the relationship you desire. I know it’s possible! I’ve done it and I’ve helped many others do it too. ALL of them feared they’d never find someone, but by using my proven methods, they all did. And they found an amazing person to be with much sooner and without continuing to have painful experiences. That’s why I do this work. There’s no need for you to suffer when I can show you a better, faster way!


If you’re tired of struggling, and you’re ready to find someone to build a life with, Empowered AF is your solution. Don’t spend more time doing the same things and hoping for a better result. Join Empowered AF and start doing things differently. 

Empowered AF is only available for a limited time, so make sure you join before the cart closes! Once we close, we close, and I can’t guarantee this course will be available again. So now is the time. This is your chance. Sign up today and let’s do this!



I’ve done courses and coaching before. What makes this program different?

This program is grounded in proven methods that work to help you heal and change. It is NOT a cookie-cutter program that follows a set of “rules”. I am a kick-ass dating and relationship expert, with over a decade of experience as a Licensed Therapist, Relationship Expert, Certified Sex Therapist, and Coach. The course was developed with my personal insights into the world of online dating. The expertise I have and what I offer is unparalleled, and I have the training, personal experience, and client successes to back that up.

Am I the right fit for this course?

If you are a single womxn and tired of being single, you’re the right fit for this course. If you’re ready to start doing things differently, you’re right for this course. This course is only open to womxn and those who identify as womxn.

I’m afraid to invest and not get any results. Do you offer any guarantees?

Your results will depend on what you put into this course, so it’s impossible for me to guarantee what your results will be. I can say with confidence that no one has ever worked with me individually or in a group/course setting and left feeling like they didn’t get what they needed. So while I can’t guarantee it, I have full confidence that if you show up, you’ll get results.

Is there a payment plan? What about cancelations and refunds?

Yes! There is a payment plan. This course is designed to add to your life, so I’ve done all I can to make sure the investment is as stress-free as possible. No, I don’t offer refunds. All sales are final.

I don’t like group programs. Why is a group important for me?

Lots of people don’t feel comfortable in groups, and I totally get that. I used to feel the same way. However, group work is the most powerful work you can do. When one person does their work with the coach or a therapist, everyone does work. Everyone gains insights into themselves. Everyone changes. Groups are not always comfortable but they are the fastest way to healing and change. So, while I used to hate groups, I hated struggling and suffering more. I pushed myself to do group programs and they were the most life altering experiences I had. If you don’t feel comfortable in groups, and that is holding you back from this program, feel free to book a discovery call with me so I can support you. I want you to get the support you need to create the life you want!

What if I miss a class. Will there be a recording?

Yes! You will get a recording from all classes so you can still benefit from a class you had to miss.

How long is this course?

The course is 3 months; 12 Weeks. We meet once a week on Thursday nights EST for 90 minutes.

Can this course really help me?

Yes! You don’t know how much you don’t know, and with this course you won’t have to spend years wasting time trying to figure it all out. If you don’t learn to do things differently, nothing will change. This course will teach you what you’re doing that is keeping you single, and what you need to do differently.

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